‘Amahlaya kababa’ asiza izingane ukuba zikhule zibe abantu abadala abanempilo: ukufunda

Ucwaningo lwakamuva luthi naphezu kwamahloni ukuthi “amahlaya kababa” angabangela, kungase kwenzele izingane okuhle esikhathini esizayo.

Umcwaningi wamahlaya uMarc Hye-Knudsen ushicilele ucwaningo ku I-British Psychological Society leli sonto liphikisa ngokuthi “amahlaya kababa” empeleni anomphumela omuhle ekuthuthukisweni.

“Uma ecatshangelwa kahle, amahlaya obaba ayinto enezendlalelo eziningi futhi ethokozisayo eveza okuningi hhayi nje ngendlela amahlaya nokuncokola ngayo kodwa nangengqondo yobaba kanye nobudlelwano babo nezingane zabo,” kubhala uHye-Knudsen.

Amahlaya kababa awavamile ukungacasuli, amazwi aphikisayo. Kunjalo kunempilo futhi kuhambisana neminyaka, okwenza kube kuhle ukuthi obaba batshele abantwababo.

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Ucwaningo olusha luphakamisa ukuthi u-corny “amahlaya kababa” angazuzisa izingane ngokuzibonisa ukuthi zingakunqoba kanjani ukuphoxeka. (iStock)

“Yikhona futhi okwenza amahlaya obaba atholakale kalula ezinsolo zokuthi uyisiphukuphuku, ukuxhuga, nokuhlekisa,” kuphawula lolu cwaningo.

UHye-Knudsen usikisela ukuthi lapho obaba bephoxa izingane zabo ngamahlaya angahlekisayo, lokho kuzifundisa indlela yokunqoba ukungakhululeki.

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“Ngokuqhubeka betshela izingane zabo amahlaya amabi kangangokuthi azibangela amahloni, obaba bangase babeke imingcele yezingane zabo ngokuthi bangabhekana namahloni angakanani,” kusho lesi sihloko. “Bakhombisa izingane zabo ukuthi amahloni awabulali.”

Isithombe sikababa ojabulayo egibelisa indodana yakhe emahlombe futhi ebheka phezulu. (iStock)

Lolu cwaningo luphetha ngokugqugquzela obaba ukuthi baqhubeke nokulekelela ukukhula kwezingane zabo ngokukhuluma amahlaya ahlazayo.

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“Uhlanganyela isiko elide neliziqhenyayo, futhi amahlaya akho amahloni angase awasize ngalutho,” kuphetha leli phephandaba. “Qhubeka uphinda ama-puns akudala afanayo, unyaka nonyaka nowokuphuma.”