Ungayithola Kanjani Impendulo Eyengeziwe - Qeda Izimanga

Ungayithola Kanjani Impendulo Eyengeziwe – Qeda Izimanga

Uxoshe bani muva nje? Umuntu ogunda izinwele zakho noma utshani? Udokotela, i-accountant, noma indawo yokudlela lapho ube nokuzizwisa okubi khona? Ingabe uke washayela noma yimuphi walabo bahlinzeki ucingo futhi wabatshela ukuthi kungani ububashintsha? Umbono wami uthi cha. Kunesikhuthazo esincane sokwenza kanjalo. Kungani engozini ukuzivikela kwabo? Kulula ukuvele uzimisele. Kunjalo nakuwe.

Sincane isisusa sokuthi abantu osebenza nabo bakutshele uma ubakhungathekile. Izindleko ezicatshangelwayo zibonakala ziphezulu kakhulu. Abantu osebenza nabo (nohlala nabo) bahlangabezane nezimpendulo zabanye ezivikelayo ezimpendulweni ezingezinhle (okungemnandi) futhi abafuni ukuzwa ukusabela kwakho. Ngenxa yalokho, lapho udumaza noma ukhungathekisa abanye, kulula ukusho lutho kunokukutshela iqiniso.

ukuthola impendulo

Ukuthambekela kwabanye ukuthi bakutshele ukuthi izinto zilungile uma kungenjalo, kuzokuvimbela ekuphatheni umsebenzi wakho kanye nobudlelwano. Abantu bazolahleka futhi uzodluliswa ngamathuba omsebenzi futhi ungazi ukuthi kungani.

Ukwenza kube lula ukuthi abantu bakutshele uma ubadumaza noma ubakhungathekisa, yenza kube lula ukukutshela iqiniso.

Nazi izinqubo eziyisikhombisa zokuthola impendulo:

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #1: Uma uqala ubudlelwano obusha, tshela abantu ukuthi ufuna impendulo yabo.

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #2: Thembisa ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abantu bathini, uzophendula ngokuthi “ngiyabonga.” Lokhu kunzima kakhulu ukukwenza.

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #3: Tshela abantu osuvele unobudlelwano nabo, ukuthi uma ungazange usho esikhathini esidlule, ufuna ngempela impendulo yabo futhi uthembise ukuphendula ngomusa ngokuthi “ngiyabonga.”

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #4: Buza abantu ababalulekile kuwe ukuthi bakunikeze impendulo njalo.

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #5: Melana nesifiso sokuzivikela.

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #6: Zibambe lapho uqala ukuzivikela futhi uxolise. Isho into efana nokuthi, “Ngiyazivikela. Ngiyaxolisa. Ngitshele futhi. Ngizokwenza umsebenzi ongcono wokulalela.”

Ukuthola Impendulo Umkhuba #7: Thatha ikhefu ezingxoxweni lapho uzithola uphendula ngokuzivikela. Isho into enjengokuthi, “Angiphenduli ngendlela ebengingathanda ngayo. Kunganjani sithathe ikhefu? Nginike imizuzu embalwa (amahora noma izinsuku) futhi ngizobuyela kuwe ukuze sikhulume okwengeziwe. Ngifuna ngempela ukuzwa ukuthi uthini.”

Uhlu olushiwo ngenhla lunikeza izincomo zokucela nokwamukela impendulo oyifunayo, hhayi impendulo ongayifuni. Awuyona indawo yokulahla. Ungabuzi impendulo ongayifuni. Futhi uma ucela impendulo, ufaneleke ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwempendulo oyifunayo. Ukutshela abantu ukuthi “Ngifuna impendulo yakho” akusho ukuthi bamukelekile ukusho noma yini abayifunayo.

Inhloso yokucela impendulo nokwenza kuphephe ukukhuluma iqiniso ukukunikeza ukulawula okwengeziwe emsebenzini wakho nobudlelwano. Kulungile ukudlulwa ngamathuba nobudlelwano, kodwa akusizi ukungazi ukuthi kungani.

Mayelana Shari Harley

UShari Harley ungumsunguli noMongameli we-Candid Culture, inkampani yokuqeqesha ezinze e-Denver ebuyisela abantu abaqotho emsebenzini, okwenza kube lula ukunikeza impendulo emsebenzini. UShari ungumbhali wencwadi yezokuxhumana kwezamabhizinisi Ungasho Kanjani Noma Noma Noma Yini Kunoma ubani: Umhlahlandlela Wokwakha Ubudlelwano Bebhizinisi Okusebenza Ngempela. Uyisikhulumi esiqavile ezingqungqutheleni futhi wenza ukuqeqeshwa kulo lonke elase-US Funda kabanzi mayelana nezinhlelo zokuqeqesha zikaShari Harley kanye neCandid Culture ku- www.candidculture.com.

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